Saturday 25 February 2012

This week's weigh-in and a little more pride...

I've just realised that I never made a post about this week's weigh in.  I've had a very difficult couple of weeks medically and been sleeping a great deal as a result.  I'm afraid the days have been somewhat slipping away from me.  It's taken me until the last couple of days to get my head together and regain normality a bit.

So - I last posted on Tuesday night, when I'd been out for a meal with my husband, done it within my points and enjoyed it as a very proud full-stop to a successfully on-plan week. 

It even gets better!  As well as my pride over my meal out, I've managed to endure an unpleasant couple of weeks at the hands of my idiot body without going off plan.  Before now I'd have used any kind of medical crisis (of which I have my fair share) as an excuse to go wildly off plan, gained weight accordingly and spent the following weeks furiously flagellating myself for it.  

This time I've somehow (and I'm not sure how, it just happened) taken the view that some things are more important than using food as a comfort blanket, and instead used a combination of a loving husband and family, a warm and purring cat (of all of them Holly, one of our old girls and very much a 'mummy's girl', always seems to know somehow when I'm not at my best) and a thick and cosy duvet in front of some good TV.  It's been strangely, but very significantly satisfying.

The only thing I haven't been able to do anything about is that I haven't been able to really do any exercise for about the last 10 days.  To try would have been silly.  Hopefully I'll be able to get back to it soon.

Anyway - my weigh in!  I recorded a loss of 1lb on Wednesday morning, and was absolutely delighted.  Onwards and downwards!

Tuesday 21 February 2012

What have you done today to make you feel proud?


My lovely husband took me out for dinner tonight.  Generally when I'm "on a diet" (and more on the cleverly-placed quotation marks later, I've another post brewing about that one), this is the kind of thing that sparks panic, especially the night before weigh in.  But - not this time.  This time I was determined to put some effort into the situation and to not do what I would usually do: end up either forfeiting the meal out altogether because I couldn't trust myself to behave, or going anyway, adopting a "sod it" approach, eating exactly what I wanted and spending the whole evening and most of the rest of the week feeling guilty about it

I planned today carefully, starting from first thing this morning.  I ate my breakfast and then carefully packed up some food for work, making sure I counted everything carefully.  It was a balancing act really, making sure that I took enough food with me so that I wouldn't be hungry during the day, but less than normal so that I'd have more than usual left for this evening.  On an average day I get home from work with about 15 to 18 Pro Points left over, which is enough to have dinner, have a yogurt or chocolate mousse or something similar afterwards, and usually have a snack of some kind later in the evening,

So - an average day looks something like this (at the moment I have a daily allowance of 40):

Breakfast:  Bagel with cream cheese (8)

Mid-morning: Banana (0), pack of Quavers from multipack (2)

Lunch: Soup (4), Ryvita (4), Philadelphia mini tub (1), yogurt (2), Quavers (2)

Afternoon: A Banana (0), if needed.

This leaves me with 16 for the evening.  About normal.

Today however I needed to do it differently, 14 Pro Points wasn't going to cut it for a meal out.

So:

Breakfast: Weetabix with skimmed milk, chopped banana and strawberries (5)

Mid-morning: Banana (0), Quavers (2)

Lunch: Soup (4), Ryvita (4), Philadelphia (1), Yogurt (2)

Afternoon: Nothing.

I went through the day eating only what I'd planned, and I got to the evening with 22 Pro Points left and a strong and warm sense of victory. Much better!  What I really found interesting (and I'll come back to this thought another day, I think) was that I ate less for breakfast and during the day, and didn't feel any hungrier by tea time than I usually do.  This makes me feel a lot better for the future- knowing that when I have to drop my points I will be able to deal with it, in spite of my fears.

Anyway - back to this evening.  The next step in my planning process involved one of my most-used Weight Watchers tools - the Eating Out Guide.  We were eating at a chain pub in the city centre, and the Eating Out Guide has a good number of their menu options listed.  I had a good look through it to make sure I could find something I liked for 22 Pro Points - and I could!

So here I am, at home with my feet up, enjoying a cup of coffee, having enjoyed a meal out with my husband and done it within my daily allowance of ProPoints - and I'm not shit-scared about my weigh-in tomorrow morning.  Reeeeeeesult! :)

(P.S. - If you're wondering, it was fish pie with peas and a piece of warm ciabatta.  Bloody lovely it was, too!)

Friday 17 February 2012

The Battle of the Body Test (or: 'Why weighing yourself every day is never a good idea.')

As you know already, I stayed the same at this week's weigh in.  In the run up to the weigh in, I was very worried about the result, even though I thought I'd had quite a reasonable week.  I need to go back a bit to explain this.

Since we got our Wii and the Wii Fit Plus about three weeks ago I've been doing the 'Body Test' daily as it recommends.  Each day this performs a centre of gravity test (the results of which can be quite interesting) and records your weight.  It then tells you your BMI, and tells you the change in your weight since the previous day.  If your weight has gone up it then asks you to select from a list of possible explanations as to why it has gone up.

Now - I don't like this.  I don't like it for a number of reasons, the main one being that I've always stood by the belief that it's a very, very bad idea to weigh yourself every single day.  The average person's weight can vary by an astonishing amount even over the course of a single day.  Almost all of us are lighter in the morning than we are in the evening - and in fact, to give the Wii Fit its due it does recognise this.  If you weigh in one day early in the morning and the next day in the evening it will warn you about it.

So back to last week - in the days before my weigh in, the Wii Fit recorded a drop of 1lb over two days, and then showed me a gain of 3lb in the subsequent two days.  Since the second of these days was immediately before my weigh in, I was understandably very worried.

So, fast forward to Tuesday, which found me worrying at the lovely Gladys about my weigh in the following morning.  Gladys has a unique way of finding the right perspective on this kind of thing and pointing it out to me when I can't see it.  She warned me that in the past her Wii Fit has, impressively, managed to show a difference of 5 or 6 pounds in her weight in the space of a couple of hours.  Not an especially reliable or accurate piece of kit when it comes to measuring one's weight, it seems.  Gladys also reminded me very sternly that I should know better than to get sucked into the daily weigh-in torture cycle.  Well, quite.  Needless to say, I've taken her advice to heart.

So, from here on I'm using the Body Test tool on the Wii Fit differently.  I'm going to perform the test only once a week, when I get back home from my Weight Watchers class - that way I get the accurate result first, and I won't spend the days before my weigh in worrying about what I'm seeing on the Wii Fit and whether there's any accuracy to it - and I won't log in to the Wii Fit every day to see a BMI graph that looks like the Himalayas.  A victory for common sense!

Wednesday 15 February 2012

Maintenance - unfortunately...

So, I stayed the same at weigh-in this week.  I hate it when this happens, it's almost worse than having a gain because of the horrible sinking feeling of a completely wasted week.  It's worse still when you don't know why.

On this particular occasion I can at least think of multiple potential good reasons why it might have happened.

First, I've done quite a lot more exercise than normal this week since I've been sticking to my aim of doing my Wii activity every day - or nearly every day, I'm now taking a rest on Wednesdays.  I've changed the activities that I've been doing in the last week.  In my first week I was doing mostly Kung-Fu, Step and Jogging, very much aerobic activities.  This week I've done more with Rhythm Parade and Boxing: both are also aerobic, but both also include a lot of upper body work, the muscles in my arms have been quite sore this week.

It's long been known that if you suddenly go from not working muscles to working them, you can maintain or even gain weight but still see a change in your shape and size.  I should add here that the oft-quoted "muscle weighs more than fat" adage is a misinterpretation of the facts, but the sentiment is right.  As a friend of mine pointed out in her own weight loss blog this week, the correct expression is: "muscle is heavier by volume than fat".  Muscle is denser than fat, so the same weight of it occupies less space.  This is what can lead to two people of the same height and weight being dramatically different in shape and size.

The second possible reason is that my food intake really wasn't brilliant, for a number of reasons.  Firstly I had the issue I talked about earlier in the week with having used all of my weekly points at the start of the week, causing me to eat into my activity points later in the week.  I'm never happy when it happens.  Secondly I had two meals which involved guesswork - in one of them I forgot to measure the olive oil I used in cooking a meal and I'm quite sure I used more than I guessed, and in the other I got a takeaway sandwich from the sandwich shop close to work at lunchtime.  I didn't make a wise choice, and what I did choose was very difficult to guesstimate.  Not good.  Additionally (as evidenced by these issues), what I've eaten also hasn't been brilliant.  I've eaten too much  bacon (which is salty and has a tendency to cause me to retain water), too much pasta and too much bread.

The last reason is hormonal.  I am, very obviously, a woman with all the joys and pleasures that brings - and all the hormonal booby traps too.  This is something I can do nothing about.  If water retention as a result of this has been a factor, it should sort itself out next week.

So - there are a number of potential reasons for this week's result.  Some of them I could have done something about, and some of them I couldn't.  I'm going to try very hard not to let it get to me.  Onwards and upwards into this week.  This week is going to be all about the exercise again, but also all about making wiser food choices, and managing my weekly points in a more disciplined way, working to not leave myself short when I really need them.  This week I'd also like to try to not use any of my exercise points.  Although last week I had a good result when I did use some of them, this week I'd like to see how it goes when I don't.

Sunday 12 February 2012

Weekly Points - budgeting for fun and profit

I'll freely admit that one of the many things I've never been very good at is managing a budget.  As some of you will know, the current iteration of the Weight Watchers system, the "ProPoints" system involves both a daily allowance and a weekly allowance of ProPoints.  For each person the daily allowance is different, but for everybody the weekly allowance is the same - 49 ProPoints.  The idea is that you use your daily points for your day-to-day meals, and your weekly ones either for days when you find you need a little more latitude, or for treats, perhaps for a meal out or a takeaway.  Your choice, really.  

Here's a screenshot, taken last night (when I first started writing this post) from the gaudily-coloured spreadsheet that I use for keeping track of such things.  You can see that I used almost all my weekly ProPoints in the first couple of days of the week - well over half of them the first day.  It's unfortunately starting to become a habit.

Part of the problem with this, as with so many things related to weight loss and weight management in general, is that there's a large psychological component to the issue.  I strongly suspect that I'm not alone in this.

In an average week I start the week knowing that I have my full week's allowance to play with - and so I inevitably find myself indulging in an oh-my-god-I've-got-my-full-allowance-to-play-with-again frenzy.  By the weekend I've used most, if not all of my weekly allowance, and then find myself pushing against self-imposed restraints if, for whatever reason, I'm struggling to stick to my daily allowance.  And this is where I end up eating (quite literally) into my activity points, and sometimes feeling bad about it if it's been a week when I wanted  to bank my activity points and not use them.

Additionally, the other psychological element is that once I know that I have no weekly points remaining, once I know that my "safety net" is gone, it becomes far harder to stick to my allowance each day.  Purely psychological of course, there's no reason for it to actually be any harder, I still have the same number of points each day, I still cook the same way, I still have the same things in my fridge and in my cupboard.  The problem is between my ears.


I find myself not quite sure how to go about changing this.  At the moment my weight loss is going in the right direction but I'm acutely conscious that as I lose more weight and my daily ProPoints allowance drops, I'm much more likely to need my additional weekly allowance to be spread out over the course of the week instead of all bunched up together.  It's something I'll need to address and work on as time goes on.

I've always known that doing this properly this time was going to involve a major change in my thinking in a lot of ways.  Much like pine needles in the weeks after Christmas, every time you think you've got them all another one pops up!  If this is a problem that anybody else has addressed successfully, I'd love to hear how you did it.

Friday 10 February 2012

Striking a blow for "The Curse of Can't Be Arsed"...

Just a quickie this morning before I make myself late for work!

I struck a blow for "The Curse of Can't Be Arsed" last night.  I rode my bike to work yesterday morning, even knowing that it was going to snow later in the day.  Sure enough, by hometime it was fairly well tipping it down.  My immediate instinct was to leave my bike in the lockup at work, grab an umbrella and go and wait for the bus home instead.

But I didn't - I pulled on my ass-kicking boots, buttoned myself up to the neck and hopped on my bike for the journey home.  It was cold and unpleasant, I got home wet through and with my eyes and face stinging from riding into the oncoming snow - but I did it, and I was proud of myself.

The first of, I hope, very many pokes in the eye for "The Curse of Can't Be Arsed".  Go me. :)

Wednesday 8 February 2012

34/18

I was delighted to get on the scales at class this morning and find that I'd lost 2.5lb in the last week.  I've been working very hard activity-wise this week, and I stood on the scales with a large grin on my face and the wonderful feeling of having received a well-deserved reward for a lot of hard work.  This brings my total weight loss so far to 10lb.  I'm 4lb short of my first stone, and also 4lb from having lost 5% of my starting weight, which is one of the first big milestones to pass.

Earlier in the week I talked about activity points, earning them through exercise and whether or not to eat them: that's what the title of this post is about.  Last week I earned 34 activity points, and ended up eating 16 of them, which meant that I got to the end of the week with a credit balance of 18.  Obviously, based on the results I saw this morning, it did me no harm at all!

It's hard to not consider the fact that had I not eaten any of my activity points then I would have had a really massive loss - but to be honest I'm very happy with my result, 2.5lb is a healthy loss in a week, and I feel as though I've achieved it quite easily - although I've done more exercise than I've ever done in my life, I've actually been enjoying it, and I've been able to use some of what I've earned for treats without undoing my hard work.

Although the exercise "regime" I'm currently putting myself to is very hard work, I'm going to keep doing it.  I've seen the result this week on the scales, and I'm already feeling the result of the combined weight loss and increased activity.  Yesterday in the course of my housework I ran up the stairs, realised I'd forgotten something, ran back down them again, then turned round and ran back up.  Absolutely, completely unthinkable really not very long ago.  I'm feeling some negative effects too, I'm even more tired than usual and I hurt in a lot of places, a lot of the time - but I think for the moment the positive effects are far outweighing the negative ones.  Hopefully as time goes on I shall get used to it, and it'll get easier.

Sunday 5 February 2012

Exercise - Do Points Win Prizes?

So, we're almost a week in with the Wii and I'm still loving it - I've been on it every day but one, and have managed at least half an hour each day.  Most days I'm doing it as soon as I get out of bed - before I have time for the "can't be arsed" feeling to turn up.

It's the first time I've begun to establish an exercise routine and enjoyed it.  I think it's a combination of things - the fact that there's a whole range of activities so it's possible to do different things every day (mostly I'm doing step, jogging, hula hooping, rhythm Kung Fu [this one is a great warm-up] and also bowling, golf and table tennis from the Wii Sports game) and the fact that the activities are fun, the fact that the whole thing is bright and cheerful and makes me smile and also that I don't have to leave the house or even put anything other than my PJs on before I do it.  It's not the same as having to go out in the cold to go to the gym, travel for 20 minutes to get there and then spend half an hour in a freezing cold air-conditioned gym, pounding away on the treadmill or the bike.  At home I can work my way down my first cup of coffee of the day while I exercise, and when I finish I can get straight in the shower and get on with my day.  It's all good.

The main thing this post is about though - activity points.  Earning Pro Points through exercise.  My lovely husband and I are having a difference of opinion over this.  When I earn activity points I hate to even consider using them on extra food - to me it's almost a challenge to earn as many as I can over the course of the week, the point (if you'll pardon the pun) isn't to run up a credit balance and then use it.  Carl is more of the opinion that if you earn them then they are there to be used.

I know that all the Weight Watchers documentation says that it's optional, but to some degree I feel as though using the points on extra food almost seems to invalidate doing the weight loss benefits in the first place.  I suppose I also need to think about the fact that exercise isn't just about accelerating weight loss, but about getting fitter and toning up my body.  I also have the issue that I'm not always certain that I've calculated my activity points correctly - what if I've not been working as hard as I'm meant to or not doing the activity in the right way?  It has the effect of making me feel guilty if I use activity points on food.


I think perhaps I need to try to take a slightly more relaxed approach to the concept.  I'm never going to use all the activity points I earn in any given week on food, but perhaps I need to stop giving myself a headache if I use a few of them.  So far this week (since Wednesday) I've earned 22, and I used 4 of them on a snack this evening (having used all my weekly points on a very nice lunch and dessert in the pub on Friday!) because even having had a relatively large meal at 7pm, I was hungry by 9.30 - probably connected to having spent 40 minutes on the Wii this afternoon and then done a load of housework this evening.  I'm not going to beat myself up about it.

Does anyone else have a view on this?  What do you do?

Friday 3 February 2012

A Food Based Reality Check... and this week's weigh-in.

It's taken me a few days to post about this week's weigh-in because initially I was quite disappointed.  I needed to take a few days and work out what happened and how I felt about it before I posted about it.

I lost half a pound this week.  I won't say "only" half a pound because I used to get told off for that by my last Weight Watchers leader, but I can't deny having been disappointed.  I'd stuck within my daily and weekly points, eaten all of my weekly points but no more, tracked everything I'd eaten that week and done a lot more exercise than usual, there was no particular reason for a small loss last week - well, I didn't think there was.

The following morning I was making my breakfast and inspiration struck - most mornings I eat a bagel with low fat cream cheese for my breakfast.  For the last couple of years I've been buying the same brand, and using the points values in the Weight Watchers database for them since I started back on the plan.

Last week though I got a food order from Sainsbury's and the bagels from their in-store bakery turned out a lot cheaper than our usual brand, so I bought them.  What I didn't notice until it suddenly struck me on Thursday morning was that the ones from Sainsbury's are quite a lot bigger than the branded ones we usually have.  

So, having checked the Weight Watchers database to find out how much each of the branded ones weighs, I put one of the bakery ones on the scales - and was truly horrified.  The branded ones are 85g each and the bakery ones are 120g.  All week I'd been cheerfully pointing them at 6 Pro Points, when I should have been counting 9 Pro Points for each one.  It's not hard to do the maths really.  I have one every morning for breakfast and at the weekend I had one for lunch one day - 8 x 3 = 24.  Over the course of the week I had an additional 24 points that I didn't account for.  Suddenly, light dawns.

The moral of the story is and has to be this - if you buy something new, double check the Pro Points.  You can't simply buy something of a different brand and assume that the Pro Points will be the same as the brand you were using before.  I don't know how many other things could trip people up in this way, but I imagine there are an awful lot of them.  Obviously with some things this doesn't apply - a medium egg is a medium egg, and half a pint of semi skimmed milk is half a pint of semi skimmed milk regardless of the branding - but one bagel is not like another any more than (choosing another item I can think of off the top of my head) one can of tomato soup is like another.  Get out the scales and the calculator, check it, write it down and you'll know for the next time.

If this post stops somebody else from getting caught in the same way it will have been worthwhile!  

So - onwards and upwards now into the new week.  This has been quite a challenging week already, but I'm learning things about myself and the way I think about food from it, which is always helpful and positive.  I'll be back tomorrow, I think. :)